Comfort Zone.....安全空间。

A straight way is depend on how u choose....
means when a person choose it...
may have them reason...
we must always face to the fact.....

i understand the cruel fact...
i face before..
i found that ,
accept a fact and face the fact is totally different...

i can accept the fact,
but...i am out of control in face the fact...
i lose control until i feel i lost my way....
no more mood to do others.....

this is so dangerous.....
in a whole week...
i try to comfort myself..
i try to face the fact....
try to do it better and better....
when want to end up ...
i need more and more confident....

I told myself...is ok ..
now i end.....if the 1st time i end,it maybe fail,
but i will try ..2nd time ,3rd time....
till i totally end up....

one's feeling is important....
it will be affect our life and mood too...
these days in school i really feel
despair....no way in my life...
coz i not yet get ready to face it.....
now i know facing problem is need to solve...
i must solve it by end it up.....

Actually....i no choice too....
i'm not going to choose,
but i need to agree with his choice...
the choice we choice will always have reason 1
i honor to the fact and his choice....


之前我一直逼自己，逼自己放手,
其实逼是自己的执著， 是没用的，
必须找个平衡点，
先把自己的情绪控制好~

放手并不是指一味正面乐观，
那根盲目的执著一样，
是无意义和不合理的。。

放下其实是从执著中转换一个较
乐观正面的思想、情绪和行为模式，
让自己从失效的 “安全空间” 走出来。

学会放下，就是走向转变的道路。
克服负面情绪....